On a blistering afternoon earlier this month, Jessay Martin, 68, headed across the street for the usual poolside confab, stopping to grab a Bud Light Seltzer Pineapple from the fridge on his way out to the patio. The four of them talk about what’s new - recovery from a recent corrective foot surgery, some chronic inflammation issues - and record videos for social media, where they’ve amassed millions of followers as the Old Gays. Robert Reeves, 78, spends most days lounging by the pool, taking in the low-desert sun with his friends and neighbors.